I thank my God
every time I remember you.
In all my
prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy
because of your
partnership in the gospel from the first day until now,
being confident
of this, that He who began a good work in you
will carry it on
to completion…
—Philippians 1vs 3-12
It is better to give
than to receive. Yes, and we all feel better when we are giving than when we
are receiving. We all come in contact with persons that we know are really
hurting and we ask, “How is it going?” Often the answer is OK, fine, good…etc.
That answer raises the antenna on a counselor. Many of us are relieved when we
hear it because now we can change the subject and avoid the real issue.
On a Friday in January
1998, I was diagnosed with cancer and made aware that surgery was a good
solution. That Sunday, June and I were scheduled to be greeters for a church
service. God forgive me but I lied a lot that morning. Most people greet with,
“Hi, how are you?” and they did not really want to hear my answer.
The point is that in 1998, we needed to take
from the church more than we could give. Oh yes, we gave them financial
support, but that is not what I mean. I needed prayers to cover my fear. June
needed prayers to cover her tears. The kids and grand kids also needed
spiritual support. The support was not for the weekend but for an extended
period that lasted most of 1998. The good news was that “…He who began a
good works in you will carry it on to completion…” The support was
available through our Christian community.
In 1998, the Pickering family was blessed; that was the year we learned to
accept the support and prayers from our friends in Christ. We learned to
receive the benefits that are available to all, that unfortunately, some are
too proud to receive.
This
last fall we again took prayers from our Christian community. The drug reaction
that followed my angioplasty was extreme and we needed serious prayers for
three months. All seems better now and the cure is in sight. This time we
remembered that “In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy”.
We are welcome and it is OK to take and receive.
Thought for Today:
Today let us recognize when we need support. Let us stop and pray about it. If
there are any real bad moments, let’s call a friend in Christ and ask for help.
The friend will be grateful. Also, if we have a great week, let’s hope that we
get a call from someone that could use our support.
Prayer for Today: Dear
Lord and Father, we offer our prayers for peace and understanding in the world.
As a nation, we seem to accept terror and murder on a daily basis in the Mid
East. Today we pray somehow for the understanding and that we, in some way, can
contribute to the spreading of your love throughout the world.
Amen